Getting my ex back the easy way… is there really an easy way? There can be – as long as you play your game right. There are a myriad of reasons why one person strays off in a relationship. It may be because of a small fight over what movie to watch or it can be because you found out that your boyfriend has an affair. We all have our stories to tell, don’t we?
When deciding that getting my ex back is really the right thing to do, you need to sit down and evaluate the whole relationship first. If the good outweighs the bad and you find you truly are still in love with your ex, then you can set about devising a plan on getting my ex back.
Here are some strategies that can help you while working on getting my ex back:
When your partner asks for a break up, give it to him. Do not go down on your knees and ask him to stay. Do not appear needy. That will only push him away. Instead, agree to his terms. If he asks for a break up, then so be it. You can be sad, you can even cry. Then a day or two after, device a plan on how to get him back.
In the next few days after your break up, do not call. Make him miss you. At this point, you should focus on how you can improve yourself. This is the best time to have a makeover and make room for personal improvement. Once you have a total personal and physical makeover, you will be refreshed and your ex will certainly notice that. If he doesn’t, it is his loss; a lot of other people (even the guys) will surely notice your improvement.
Socialize and go out. This will show your ex that you can live your life even without him around. This does not mean that you should immediately go out on dates. Hang out with your friends and mingle. Do not make your ex jealous or show him that you can easily get a guy fall for you, this will only make him mad and push him away.
After a week or so, make him notice you (of course, not obviously). You can take some friends with you and be where he usually hangs out. Approach him with a simple hello and catch up with each other. Open the communication lines again and let him feel that as though it was just like the day that you first met.
At this stage, it is okay to set up a get together where you two can have a little small talk privately. If the first few conversations went good, then you can go ahead and start talking about where you took off and be open to the things that he would have to say about your relationship. Let him know that you are still interested in working things out. As soon as he is open to this, you are officially on the right road of getting back together.
There is an excellent guide that is available called The Magic of Making Up. It has helped thousands of couples with getting their ex back and it can help you, as well.